Are you losing sleep over your Divorce?  You are not alone.  A study from our own University of Arizona shows that losing sleep during a highly stressful time such as a divorce can cause major health concerns.  The University of Arizona team gives advice in this article as to how to reclaim your sleep cycle.

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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/galtime/tossing-and-turning-over-_b_5695286.html

Advice on breaking the news of your divorce to your parents. There are some very wise nuggets of advice in here.

http://www.heraldnet.com/article/20140819/LIVING/140819169/Advice-on-breaking-divorce-news-to-parents

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3 ways Divorce can affect your Social Security

http://www.fool.com/investing/general/2014/08/09/social-security-3-ways-divorce-can-affect-your-ben.aspx

New precedent set in Arizona by Arizona Appeals Court, "The ruling means that, in Arizona, transgender persons who have legally changed their birth certificates to reflect their new gender are afforded the same rights to get driver's licenses and marriage licenses as any other individuals."

http://www.azcentral.com/story/news/local/arizona/2014/08/13/arizona-appeals-court-pregnant-man-can-get-divorce/14026193/

Average Cost of Weddings Exceeds $30,000

The economy is improving therefore the average cost of a wedding has now exceeded $30,000. Many couples finance these costs themselves sending them into debt. This in turn can cause conflict. One of the top reasons for divorce is financial disagreements. The lesson to be learned here is do not send yourself into debt over a wedding you cannot afford!

Article from CNN Money on the Average Cost of Weddings Today

Why Spousal Maintenance Matters!

Great article on what can happen when you do not get spousal maintenance.  Make sure to get a knowledgeable attorney when significant assets are on the line. 
 http://www.latimes.com/business/la-fi-money-makeover-jones-20140313,0,1750060.story#axzz2wEbSUyg3

Keeping your emotions in check during a divorce

Divorce can be extremely stressful and may wreck havoc on your emotions.  However, it is extremely important to control your emotions during a time when there is a magnifying glass on your every move.  I have had many clients negatively impact their divorce results by impulsively emailing or texting their soon to be ex-spouse with inappropriate or even threatening content.  This can be a death sentence for a divorce trial especially when there are children involved.

This recent blog on Huffington Post has very good tips on how to keep your emotions in check during a divorce:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/caroline-choi/divorce-confidential-mana_b_4950789.html